For Men: 6 Dating Blunders You Must Never Make
Many men, in an effort to please a new woman in their lives, make costly mistakes. Here is a list of dating blunders to avoid.
1.) Nice Guys Finish Last
Believe it or not, this is the truth. This is one of the top dating mistakes men make over and over again. Being a nice guy won’t make most women feel a powerful attraction to you. This doesn’t mean you should be rude or unpleasant. Just don’t be all over her or too eager to please. Be a MAN. A good man who treats her well.
2.) Impatience
Don’t try to rush things. Give her a few compliments now and then to grab her attention. Don’t overdo it. Don’t tell her how much you like her until you’ve had a few dates or she’ll get bored with you quickly.
3.) Boring
Women can’t stand a bore. Try your best to keep your conversations light and interesting. If you are talking to a woman and notice her yawning, scanning the room or checking her phone, it means you’re boring her. Do something quick to grab her attention or you’ll lose her.
4.) Availability
This is a very tricky one. Granted, you want to spend more time with this woman, but if your calendar is too open it means you are too available. A woman wants to date a guy that has other things going on in his life. So try to be busy sometimes. Make her want you.
5.) Trying to buy her affection
You can never buy genuine affection from a woman. When you try to, you’re sending a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection.” Trying to buy a woman’s attention just means you’re insecure and you’re using money and gifts to compensate.
6.) Clinginess
Along with availability, do not start acting like her puppy. Don’t cling to her side or hold her hand all the time. Don’t feel like you constantly need to stick around her. Remember everyone needs their personal space.
No matter how hard you try, you’re not perfect so you’ll make mistakes. Just know that if a woman truly likes you, she’ll give you many chances to prove yourself but if she doesn’t, there’s nothing you can do.
